Sing Rebel, Sing!

rebel song

I can’t believe it’s been over a year since I’ve started this blog.  On one hand, it’s a little depressing.  Because I’m not out of the weeds.  I thought blogging about my struggle would give me some accountability and would help deter purging.  But let’s be honest, the concept of an “accountability partner” for anything in my life has never really worked for me (kudos to those who find them productive).  For me, self-motivation is the only way I’m going to get through this.

But on the other hand, reading through my posts, I see so much growth over the past year.  There have been many purge-free weeks (and a few strung together!).  Something that was virtually non-existent prior to working with my counselor.  I am starting to get a firmer grasp on what sets off my purging episodes, which is helping me work through those situations in a healthy way rather than running to B.  The big one – I HAVE HOPE.  I know this isn’t going to be a part of my life forever, which is something I didn’t have the hope to see when I first started this process.  I thought purging was so ingrained in my daily habits that I couldn’t escape it.  My health and my happiness is my number one priority.  At the end of the day, I have to be happy with me and the person I’ve become.  It doesn’t matter how much I weigh, how many friends I have, or whether or not people approve of my choices.  It just. doesn’t. matter.

So.  I’m not fully recovered by any means.  But I’m a lot further along than I was a year ago, and progress is something to be proud of.  It’s something YOU can be proud of.  From underneath the rubble, let’s sing the rebel song.

Advertisements

2 thoughts on “Sing Rebel, Sing!

  1. I can SO relate to that feeling of thinking you should be further along than you are. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve thought ahead to the future thinking, “Oh, I’ll be “over this” by then.” And then that moment comes, and I’m right where I was when I thought that. But I love how you look past that to see all the ways you HAVE changed and HAVE made progress. It can be easy to get caught up in where we’re NOT that we forget to look at all the work we’ve done to get where we ARE. Thanks for reinforcing that for me. And congratulations on all the hard work you’ve done to get where YOU are! You’ve made a lot of strides over the past year. And I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE how you say “I know this isn’t going to be a part of my life forever.” That is so powerful. And you know what? I totally believe that about you. AND me 🙂

    Singing the rebel song right along with you 🙂

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s